Can you help me to lose weight?

I had a conversation recently that went something like this…

Them: Can you help me to lose weight?

Me: Yes

Them: How quickly?

Me: Depends how committed you are

Them: What if I’m not that committed?

Me: Then it’ll take longer

Them: How long?

Me: Depends how committed you are

Them: Define committed

Me: Doing what it takes to reach your goal

Them: But you’ve got to enjoy life

Me: I agree, but I know people who’s definition of enjoying life is eating healthily and keeping fit

Them: Wow, that’s committed

Me: Not really, they just enjoy looking good more than they enjoy takeaways and drinking so it’s no hardship for them

Them: So what about with my level of commitment?

Me: Then it’ll take longer

Them: But it’s do-able?

Me: Yep

Them: Ball park timescale?

Me: Depends on your starting point

Them: Two stones overweight

Me: If you hit it hard with training and get your nutrition spot on then about 3-6 months (1-2lbs a week)

Them: What if I go at 50% effort

Me: 1-2 years (1-2lbs a month)

Them: Define 100% effort?

Me: Smash the gym 3-5 times a week and eat for your goals, not your cravings.

Them: And 50%?

Me: Work fairly hard at the gym 3 times a week and eat “clean” most of time, making sure you stay within your calorie limit.

Them: Can’t you do it quicker?

Me: Me? No it’s your body!

Them: Ha OK can I do it quicker?

Me: Yep but you might end up putting back on again because it’ll be to hard to keep up long term.

Them: Ah…Ok! Let me think 🙂 …


1, Everyone has different goals, motivators and levels of commitment. And all of them are fine!!!


2, To give 50% effort of someone who is living and breathing their goal and expect the same results is crazy.


Align your expectations with your effort and be OK with making progress at your own rate, whatever that may be!

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